for all the men and some of the women I’ve known by Danila Botha
A Throwback Thursday Fiction Review from 2016 by James M. Fisher
I became an instant fan of Toronto author Danila Botha after reading her first full-length novel, Too Much on the Inside (2015, Quattro Books), concluding: “This is an impressive first novel from this young, energetic author and I hope that more titles will be forthcoming.”
Ms. Botha’s writing has matured and she now writes about relationships from a different focal point: a more experienced one; the characters are a bit older but no less afflicted with life’s problems.
I didn’t have too long of a wait, for Ms Botha has just released a collection of new short stories entitled For All the Men (and Some of the Women) I’ve Known (2016, Tightrope Books). There are eighteen stories, all grouped under various headings such as Meeting, Falling In, Falling Out, Friendship and finally, Resolution. As you can guess, these stories are all about personal relationships and their various stages. Here, Ms. Botha is at her best and has noticeably matured in her writing since releasing the small short story collection Got No Secrets in 2010 (also from Tightrope Books), a group of rather ‘raw’ stories of the victims of addiction, abuse, rape and suicide based on her volunteer work with Na-Me-Res, an organization benefiting the homeless.
Ms. Botha writes about relationships from a different focal point: more experienced, the characters a bit older, but no less afflicted with life’s problems. Whether it is a new bride emotionally abused by her new mother-in-law and sister-in-law in “My Second Family”, childhood friends who help each other through their addiction issues in “The Womanizer”, a woman who converts to Judaism for the man she loves in “It’s Our Life”, or the betrayal of love by a successful lawyer in “How People Work” all are stories that hold out a promising ‘light-at-the-end-of-the-tunnel’ type of ending; the person (usually the woman) coming out of the ordeal, stronger, wiser, more in touch with herself than ever before.
Take for instance “The Keeper of Your Secrets” about a woman who is a veteran of several failed relationships, including a marriage. She finally meets someone online and they hit it off together. Ms Botha’s character concludes:
“You are sure that there is something miraculous about the way you managed to find each other. You hope that, somehow, you’ll manage to keep each other.”
As a short story addict, I devoured this collection, and I hope Ms Botha continues to hone her craft producing more stories with that healthy touch of realism for which she has come to be recognised.
2024 Update: Danila Botha has just had her newest collection of short fiction published!
About the Author
Danila Botha is the critically acclaimed author of short story collections Got No Secrets and the Trillium Book Award, Vine Awards, and ReLit Awards finalist For All the Men (and Some of the Women I've Known.) Her award-winning novel Too Much on the Inside was published in 2015. It was optioned for film by Pelee Entertainment in 2023. She is currently working on her new graphic novel and has a new collection of short stories, and a new novel coming out soon with Guernica Editions.
Book Details
Publisher : Tightrope Books, Inc. (Oct. 1 2016)
Language : English
Paperback : 160 pages
ISBN-10 : 9781988040080
ISBN-13 : 978-1988040080